Dedicated to the memory of Ray

This site is a tribute to Ray. He is much loved and will always be remembered.

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Funeral service is at Portchester Crematorium on Friday 8th November 2024 at 3:15 pm

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To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say. Though first of all to let you know I arrived OK. I’m writing this from heaven, here I dwell with Spirit above. Here there’s no more tears of sadness. here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy because I am out of sight. Remember I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through. Heavens warmth covered me and said I welcome you. It’s good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they’ll be here later on. We need you here so badly, you’re part of our great plan. There’s so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man. Spirit gave me a list of things that were wished for me to do. And foremost on that list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in your bed at night the day’s chores put to flight. Spirit and I are closest to you. in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years. Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry a while; it helps relieve the pain. Remember there would no flowers unless there was some rain. I wish I could explain to you all that Spirit has planned. If I were to tell you, you would not understand. One thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over. I’m closer to you now than I ever was before. There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb – But together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I’d like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who’s in sorrow and in pain. Then you can say to me at night, my day was not in vain. So now I am contented, that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile. So if you meet someone who is sad and feeling low; Just lend a hand to pick him up as on your way you go. When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got me on your mind; I’m walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind. And when it’s time for you to go from that body to be free. Remember you’re not going… you’re coming here to me.
Claire Braybrooke-Gibbens (Letter from Heaven)
4th November 2024
My boss, my friend, my mentor. You not only taught me to build engines and fix cars, but several life lessons also. You taught me empathy,trust,honesty and grab life and opportunities with both hands. You also taught me to be a great irritating prankster. For all that I thank you. Till we meet again buddy.
Dave Cawood
4th November 2024
Thank you for creating this tribute to Raymond and for choosing to support Rowans Hospice during this sad and difficult time. Honouring the memory of a loved one by supporting our work is a very special way to celebrate their life. We hope that building this tribute brings you comfort and inspiration whenever you feel the need, whether it is on birthdays, anniversaries or any other day that is important to you. The Charity will always be grateful to family and friends for remembering us at what we know can be a sad and difficult time.
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17th October 2024

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We will always cherish you and Lesley’s trip to Washington to stay with us. We so loved that and to this day think of it so often. I remember when in San Francisco you Ray set Mike up with my dearest Auntie Kathy about the fire hydrant by the Cliff House Such a cherished memory . Mike just shares that with anyone who will listen.
Lit by Mike & Carol Ferguson on 31st October 2024
Lit by Lovingly Mike & Carol Ferguson on 31st October 2024
Ray my dearest cuzzie. What to say is so hard at a time like this. However We will always remember your great Smile and your whitty personality you always had a remark for whatever we said. You always made us LAUGH we are so grateful for the way in which you took care of Lesley always with your support and your love may the Lord always bless you now you are in HEAVEN with all those whom you loved and in return you so dearly loved yourself. I pray our LORD JESUS WILL hold you tight with the reassurance you as well as Lesley need so very much in the days ahead. Ray the battle has been won and you are now in the arms of our Savior and LORD JESUS CHRIST. ENJOY the rewards you have earned now in Heaven. We will always remember you until we can all be together again. No more tears just Praise to him who saved us so that we may rest in his light and LOVE. Forever. Lovingly. MIKE & Carol. Ferguson Rest easy darlin.
Lit by Lovingly. Michael & Carol Ferguson. Rest easy now your battle is over and you are in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ 4 ever on 31st October 2024
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